Gnostic, call a spade a spade and be more direct. You want to say MrMouse has "no understanding of group dynamics or individual psychology, and does not acknowledge the effects of such statements on the standing of the organsiation [sic]" Say it. It'll feel better. Might be construed as public criticism though
Different industries and job roles function better with different management styles, and the sporting industry IS different to the financial industry, your company's HR department etc etc. Horses for courses.
I don't know Cooper's individual psychology any more than you do. I pointed out that there is a very real possibility that for the sake of the group dynamic Deans' comments were necessary, not inflammatory. You do not have the knowledge to argue against that point (nor have you really tried beyond a blanket statement).
Given the current public standing of both the ARU and Wobs coaching staff at present, very little could have significant NEGATIVE impact on their standing. Talkback probably supports it, broadsheets don't care, and the fans are grateful that someone's addressing the elephant in the room. Relatively speaking, only a small minority of stakeholders CARE about its impact on the organisation's standing, let alone think it's negative.
IF, and it's a big if, Cooper resents bagging him it won't necessarily work to the detriment of their working relationship. They're not mates. They're not even colleagues. Deans is his manager, and you have to be able to take criticism from your boss. IF he resents him it might push him to prove Deans wrong. IF we follow every negative strain of thought and arrive at Cooper being unable to work with Deans, his staff, or any specialist coaches he appoints then HE WON'T BE A WALLABY. Simple.
At the end of the day, as Groucho said, it wasn't even a bollocking. It's a fun distraction to argue about this stuff but not really on the same scale as the disinterest in competing at the ruck or any other area of the rugby field shown by Aus A v Munster.