No, I guess I can't, but that is how it feels when someone leaves, especially when they then comes back as a last resort because the team they left for collapses. This is particularly the case when they could have stayed but chose to leave rather than not being given a option to stay.
I have been one of the first to applaud players who leave for personal reasons, they are all one injury away from losing their livelihood so they should make the most of their opportunities to set themselves and families up for the future.
I guess it is lucky that this is an internet forum and different people have differing opinions, it would be pretty boring if we all came here and said the same thing.