[Long-time lurker, recently joined up, first post.]
I've been following this thread for what seems like a long time, and it's been a fascinating read.
I'm not a Cooper fan and never have been. I think he's too inconsistent as a footballer - stunningly electrifying at times, amazingly useless at others. As for his personal life, I shudder.
On this recent controversy, I've read what I can and watched his appearance on "The Rugby Club". I do not have any idea what is this "toxic environment". Nothing he said, nothing he reportedly has written has enlightened me.
However, some partly-formed thoughts...
Would it be fair to say that his is the first generation that has no real knowledge or awareness of the amateur era or of amateurism?
Professionalism came to rugby in the mid-1990s[?]. While there was "shamateurism" before that, a lot of the responsibility was up to you. You had a day-to-day job, you trained a couple of nights a week with your club, you played on the weekend, and then retired to the bar. You did it for the love of the game and for the mate-ship. If you were deemed to be good enough, and if you worked really hard, you might just be allowed to pull on your country's jersey.
These days, if he's good enough, a kid gets signed up to a Super club while he is still at school. He's on a salary as soon as he leaves school. Rugby is his job. He's told by the club that he's fantastic. He trains a lot, but his workplace is the club.
And the club is his life. He doesn't have the reality-check that work-mates and the work-place can be, to bring him back to earth.
I am not trying to excuse Cooper. As "old school", I find his behaviour completely inappropriate, and believe that the game will be better off without him, overall.
I do think that we all - administrators, coaches, players, fans - have to accept that rugby as it was known (amateur) no longer exists, and that rugby today (professional) is completely different. It's no longer a game - it's a business.