I believe HJ did respond. The rules were changed (whether people agree or not), players and there parents at the beginning of the season made decisions on how to respond to these changes. Players and parents in Chatswood made the decision to try and play both school and SJRU to qualify for the SJRU State Championships and further club representative honours, that was their choice, it clearly was a difficult choice but one that they made. As many have said they have complied with the rules as they are written.
Uncle Iroh complains about playing too much Rugby, and by what he is saying playing 2,3 or 4 hard games is too much for a weekend. However, there are players from other clubs who Chatswood have forfeited against that did not get even 1 game of Rugby that weekend because they were forfeited against. These players registered in the competition in good faith assuming that all clubs in that competition would be competing, so each decision has ramifications and players/parents of these families are frustrated.
Players (and their parents) are always going to want to play in Rep teams. I am sure there are children that want to play for the 1st XV of a GPS school even though they attend a public school but there are rules in place to prevent this whether people/players like them or not.