Very pertinent words indeed, Hound.
As you point out, this dreadful situation could so very easily have occurred to one of our own kids, or even one of us oldies.
I am not sure whether Tom was any good at rugby, and that is irrelevant. He played Heavensgame, and now he is running the water up there.
He was one of the Rugby Family - end of story.
In the eyes of the game that is played in Heaven, we are all equal from Wallaby to 1st XV to the 13 H’s, from the Under 6’s to the Canteen Volunteer, Water boy and even the Assistant Referee.
I think, as a mark of respect for Tom, his family and friends, a moments silence would not be out of place at all schoolboy games tomorrow, GPS, ISA and CAS.