Yep in the context of the argument, yes they are the equivalent. I was trying to establish whether you thought that a 'day off' was a free for all, or whether you felt that some standards of behaviour still applied. I can see from your response that you agree with the latter, as you should.
Which leads to my next point, that they didn't need someone to sit them down and tell them that they weren't allowed to go out and start trouble, they knew that this was a standard of behaviour that was expected of them, so clearly, the suggestion that they weren't told that they shouldn't be out past midnight is not approval to be out past midnight. They should have held their position in the team in a higher regard and been focussed on the job that they were there to do - and that is to win Rugby Tests.
And what I would choose to do on my day off if I were a Wallaby is completely relevant to the argument because we are talking about whether a group of players should or should not have been expected to know whether it was acceptable behaviour to be out drinking past midnight in the week before a Test. How is it that I know what is expected behaviour, without ever having had any exposure to the organisation and yet these guys need to be told what time they should be in bed?
As Slim said, it's not that they didn't know, it's that they didn't care. And that is precisely why they should have been dropped.