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Peter Johnson (47)
Agree with the highlighted bits.This hasn't been my experience but I'm not sure what age you are talking about when you say 'youngsters' as opposed to 'kids' I think it might be harder as kids get older to get them used to contact if they haven't had any experience previously..
In terms of the whole contact thing, there are always a couple of kids who don't like contact and just aren't built for rugby but this is no different to previous generations. In my opinion and experience, kids need:
good coaching that teaches them how to go into contact and how to deal with contact
good coaching that teaches ALL contact areas, not just tackling and ball running
good coaching that acknowledges and highlights the dirty work like great clean-outs and excellent scrummaging and connecting those parts of rugby with success and the 'glamourous' parts of rugby eg. tries.
In terms of the social aspects of rugby, I'm actually in a bit of an 'experiment' with this right now with my son's team who are U15s. Personally, I think boys generally just want to hang out and have fun. They don't need a lot of money (just a lot of food! LOL) but they want to make connections with kids their age and have experiences. Those experiences can be as simple as playing touch and having a couple of sausage sandwiches afterwards. Going around to one of the boy's house to sleepover and watch the Rugby World Cup semi and play some Playstation.
Finally, I just think kids want to feel valued in the groups they are in. Not just by their peers but also the adults and the parents in those groups. Personally, I've always tried to find the kids who do the 'unnoticed' work in games and make a point of going and telling them what a great job they are doing after games. Being specific about a particular clean-out or tackle or even just if I've seen them encourage another kid or take leadership in a situation. Make sure they know that it was seen and acknowledge it.
Quite honestly, I have no idea if any of this is as effective as I think it is but I should have a better idea by this time next year hopefully. So maybe I'll be back telling you that I'm full of shit! LOL
My experience was first with senior Colts then 1st grade Subbies and then with 3rd grade Subbies. It was a struggle to get enough Colts to play and then there were some who thought we should abandon the 1st colts we had, demote them to 2nd grade and bring in another bunch to play 1st grade. This went down like a lead balloon and most of the colts left.
In Subbies 1st grade was fine, it was 3rds and 4ths where it was a struggle to get the required number of players on the park on Saturday We ended up with usually 4 at training for 3rds and had to get players to play 2 games to fill the team. There were dire situations in terms of player numbers at that time, from what I hear it has not changed.
P.S. In 3rd grade Subbies we had 30+ players signed and paid subs which dropped to about half a team within 4 weeks of season starting.