I was at the second game in Melbourne and spent the whole day drinking and talking with Lions fans, the banter was cheeky but well natured and many came for a drink after the game and were happy to discuss the outcome/turning points etc. I have found the people to be good natured and friendly, reflecting well on the home nations.
Ignore the media, they are just trying trying to sell headlines through controversy and passionate language, the fans are a true reflection of Rugby, and from what I have seen they have done the collective rugby community proud.