Watching the replay, in the first half it seems to me that the ref only looked at the Reds at the breakdown. Reds have real issues with their discipline, but some of the penalties against the Reds in their own half in particular were just very harsh.
Horwill's "high" tackle, two holding on penalties Coetzee "earned" (including one after a much higher tackle from Kankowski) are three in particular that cost the Reds dearly. Coetzee seemed to just have to bend over and touch the ball to earn a penalty. Even Saia's early penalty came after the Sharks players had left their feet by simply diving at the "ruck".
As a Reds supporter I may be a bit biased, but if I was Richard Graham I would be furious with two things: the 50/50s or inconsistencies all going to the Sharks, at least so far, and my own team's execution.
That being said, what has cost the Reds so far is their execution. Inability to hold onto their own ball and poor kicking and handling, particularly from Toua, made it very hard for the Reds.
Funny, all the talking up of the Sharks before the game, and in the first half the Reds were their own enemy more than the Sharks.
Match stats say that the Reds gave away 15 penalties. Whatever issues they are having with the ref, they need to improve that or they will lose to the Lions next week.
Let's see how the second half goes.