Yes and no RH. It has always been that way. It is very hard for us to speculate on a player's motives for leaving one club for another, because there are so many different factors at play, both personal and professional.
I would suggest a good thing to look at is the number of players leaving a certain club. JOC (James O'Connor) and KB (Kurtley Beale) are really the only players leaving their respective clubs. Surely that points to more personal factors at play. If there were endemic club problems then you would see more players leaving at once- as seems to be the case with the Brumbies.
I am not saying there aren't issues at both the Force and Tahs, but I think it would be a bit much to suggest that KB (Kurtley Beale) and JOC (James O'Connor) moved because of them. The management should be more receptive to criticism, but it is hard for them to comment unless KB (Kurtley Beale) tells them his specific grievances. I suspect the Tahs were a bit blindsided by Beale's move, and thus there response has been vague as they are yet to work out what they did wrong.
I would, as respectfully as possible, suggest the Tahs are incapable at a management level of identifying what they did wrong with Kurtley. They have shown scarce nous or foresight over a number of signings, and indeed non-signings in recent years. Plus, I think, players want some sort of "plan". They want to know who will be coaching them in the next few years, and whether that coach has what it takes to get the team to a level that the players want. Nobody seems to have a clue who will coach the Tahs next year, but they all know who will be in charge in Melbourne, and what his track record is like.