No problem with teams playing predominantly 10 man rugby if that's what they think is their best tactic to win. I just believe rugby would be a better game if teams had to score the points themselves when the other team has some chance to stop them.
Why should the referee essentially have the power to directly award a team 3 points for often technical infringements? 2 random scrum penalties on the halfway line that are converted into penalty goals are worth more than a 20 phase try scored in the corner with a missed conversion. It doesn't make sense.
Why? The two penalties on the halfway line are very difficult to kick. Notice that Australian kickers in particular struggle with those. Several of our most accurate kickers can't kick that far.
The referee in every sport has a huge say on how a match goes because they are the judge of whether players are following the laws.
I don't understand why someone 'getting their timing wrong' shouldn't necessarily result in points. That's a huge aspect of the game. A game of rugby becomes far worse when players are allowed to slow the ball down at the breakdown because 'they got their timing wrong' and had a go at the ball when they were no longer entitled.