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David Codey (61)
I thought it was a great thing that my kids played at a club where they knew very few before registering.But isn't the whole point of junior rugby - and I'm sure this has been reported as one of the biggest reasons kids play any sport, let alone rugby - is to play with their friends?
So unfortunately the bigger dude no longer gets to play with his mates? He has to go up a level?
And this is from someone, as a few on here are aware of, has boys who are generally close to the smallest on the field.
One isn't fantastic in contact (but we focus on it in trying to improve technique and attitude) and one who just bloody well loves getting in there and loves to challenge of taking on the bigger guy.
Once again the solution, and it's a lot harder than just saying it, comes down to better coaching of our kids. Particularly at the tackle.
The whole volunteer as Jnr coaches thing is obviously the biggest hurdle here. Coaches at this level are generally just the guys willing to put their hands up. Not always the best equipped not best supported.
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My eldest is still best mates with a few that he met as a 10yo.
That's one of the great value adds of Rugby IMO.
Your kids are obviously not big enough to have been lined up by someone literally twice their body weight with clear intent to hurt them.
My eldest literally picked his tooth out of mouth guard when he was 14, when the Behemoth he was playing couldn't get low enough to to tackle him legally ( with force).
Another was thought to have suffered compartment syndrome ( crush injury) when a giant deliberately landed on him (to hurt & intimidate him) at a similar age.
Another of my sons quit the game, due to constantly being flogged in physical mismatches.
Both my brothers kids quit contact sport due to mismatches, and these were athletic kids that were very competive.
A local Rugby club has an o/s trip for their 14's to entice them to hang around,which is hugely effective.This Year they couldn't field a 15's side.
Maybe,the demographics are different in your area,and you don't experience it.
But it's a real thing, that is affecting participation numbers.