Actually, this year I think that we have been a bit worse here at criticing refs than TSF, and our teams have been winning more.
I'm another who is over whining refs (unless it's a completely bottled HK Bledisloe type performance), as it doesn't do any good any good in the long run. I'm trying to avoid it at the moment...but I think it's still fair to say whether they had a good or bad game overall, or if they were poor in some area, but fixating on one decision isn't the way forward.